02 Jan When you’re in love but don’t feel it anymore
There are times you’ll not *feel* in love with your partner.
When you’re just starting out, it’s so easy to think that life is all about rainbows and butterflies. You two are deeply in love with each other and everything is going perfectly.
But one day the honeymoon period will be over.
You will start discovering new habits you didn’t know about your sweetheart; and you’ll be faced with learning how to deal with it.
How you respond to such situations will make or break your relationship.
When that time comes, you may even start questioning some of your decisions – and if you really love him as much as you thought you did.
Life is not a bed of roses. You will hurt him, and he will hurt you right back. But what happens after the hurt? Do you lovingly talk about it with respect and empathy? Or do you sweep it under the carpet with make-up sex?
During these times of uncertainty; when you feel so bad and almost depressed, I just want you to remember one thing: LOVE IS A DECISION.
When all the sweet feelings are gone, Love will win.
When there’s so much arguments and fights, Love will see you through.
When you’re not sure of what to do next, Love will guide you.
When your partner acts like a jerk and you just want to tell him off, Love will give you the right words to say.
When the road seems dark, Love will light up the way.
You can only control your own actions – you cannot determine your partner’s reactions. If you consciously decide to act from a place of love, you will never go wrong.
Love is a decision – not just a feeling.
During difficult moments when the romantic feeling for your partner is overshadowed by life events – let love see you through.
Cos when it’s all said and done, Love always wins.
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